If you think you’re battling flesh and blood, you’ve already lost the war. Copyright© 2009, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

 All points of view have value. Just because people are giving great advice doesn’t mean some or all of it applies to your situation and/or circumstances. Although people usually mean well, be wise in the counsel you keep and the advice from others that you apply in your life. Discern for yourself what you can [...]

Allow God to put His super with your natural, and witness the extraordinary. Copyright© 2009, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

When we turn men into gods and then find out they’re mere mortals, why is it that we blame them for our own disillusionment? Be careful who you place on a pedestal. When they tumble off, it’s usually your heart on which they fall. Copyright© 2009, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

A second guess and a second chance aren’t the same thing. When you second guess, you’ve never given the first choice a try. Don’t get the two confused when you’re dealing with people. Copyright©, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

When speaking of intimate relationships, we know we must not treat the next person in our life poorly because of what the previous person put us through, so why do we carry past hurts and slights into a new relationship? It’s simple: unspoken and/or unnoticed regret. We regret that we didn’t act differently in the previous [...]

When Anne Frank said that in spite of everything, she believed that people are good at heart, people called her young and naive. I believe she was right, even though people try to prove me wrong at every turn. I’ll keep believing in the goodness of people, even when they show me their worst, because [...]

When you and another person are involved in a dispute, one person can’t solve the issue alone. You can’t have a conversation with yourself and by yourself and then dictate to the other person how the outcome will be. You can’t simply decide “this or that” is what you need to have or do to move on and then [...]

We say “treat others as you want to be treated.” How about “treat yourself as you would treat others.” When other people fall short, we show them more understanding and compassion than we ever think to show ourselves. Do you realize when you “beat yourself up” for falling short or missing the mark that you’re [...]

A test gives birth to a testimony. Testimonies are meant to be shared, not to be hidden. What you’ve gone through and come out of will give someone else the strength to get free from their bondage. If you’re not sharing your testimony, you’ve missed the purpose of the test. Copyright© 2009. Faydra D. Fields, All [...]