We say we’ll pray for people and/or their loved ones, but we don’t usually ask for what we should pray. You may be praying for healing while the family is praying for release and rest. Don’t pray without direction. Find out on what you’re touching and agreeing to. Make sure your prayers line up with [...]

If a person rejects you without getting to know you, then that person is not actually rejecting you. He/she’s rejecting the idea of you he/she has in his/her own mind. That’s no reflection on/of you. That’s a reflection on/of his/her short-sightedness. Don’t take it personally. He/she hasn’t taken the time to get personal. Move on [...]

If you are telling someone you love him/her just to hear it back, you’re saying it for all the wrong reasons. How you feel and what you feel shouldn’t be predicated on how someone else does or does not feel. When we give love, it’s nice to get it in return. However, genuine love shouldn’t be [...]

There’s a difference between a smart chance and a stupid risk. Get wisdom to discern one from the other. Copyright© 2010, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

Don’t ask me to be less, so you can be more. That just makes us both mediocre. Copyright© 2010, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

If I treat you like YOU treat you, you’d get an order of protection against me. It’s not OK for you to do violence to you, either. Self love is the highest law of preservation. People who hate themselves have no choice but to destroy themselves, because hatred is an emotional cancer that eats away [...]

If you think you’re battling flesh and blood, you’ve already lost the war. Copyright© 2009, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

All points of view have value. Just because people are giving great advice doesn’t mean some or all of it applies to your situation and/or circumstances. Although people usually mean well, be wise in the counsel you keep and the advice from others that you apply in your life. Discern for yourself what you can [...]

Allow God to put His super with your natural, and witness the extraordinary. Copyright© 2009, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.

When we turn men into gods and then find out they’re mere mortals, why is it that we blame them for our own disillusionment? Be careful who you place on a pedestal. When they tumble off, it’s usually your heart on which they fall. Copyright© 2009, Faydra D. Fields. All rights reserved.